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Tuesday, April 13, 2010

Nasihat...

Yesterday...a friend of mine called me...dier tengah frust..menangis-nangis....why?

  • Her Bf tak call her for nearly 3 days...alasan busy.....banyak kerja..bla...bla...meeting..(oh! her bf tak kerja kat laut ye..my friend duduk Subang jaya..her bf duduk kl)
  • Her Bf tak message her..the same stupid alasan...busy...biler my friend message banyak-banyak...dier buat tak layan..atau dier balas skit je..cth: my friend bagi message..."Sayang,how are you...B rindu sayang...kenapa sayang tak call me? i miss talking to you....i love you so much..bla...bla..." message siap bagi poem...jiwang-jiwang... after few messages..atau the next day kot...baru nak reply message.."fine...busy...." what the f***....penat-penat my friend buat karangan..dier reply macam bagi kat kawan...
  • Her BF ada suh diorang separate for a while...kononnya that guy tak ready for commitment..(amboi...amboi...sedapnya cakap....couple dah dekat 7 years..tak ready for commitment...sorry to say...tak macam couple...tapi more into husband and wife....gi vacation sama-sama..etc...now tak ready for commitment? bull****) and nak focus on his future...atau tunggu naik pangkat (hish!! sampai bila?? my friend dah 27 years old,bang oii...)
  • Her Bf kadang-kadang off his hp....kalau telephone...di luar kawasan ke? kalau tanya...his battery abis....(hahahaha...ni alasan paling banyak that guy bagi...)
  • His facebook atau ym banyak list perempuan :p and then siap message-message lagi..hanya Tuhan je tau apa message tu...
  • oh!! dah tak bagi GF tengok HP...privacy...kalau ada orang call...kelam kabut...either dier tak accept call atau cakap jauh-jauh....

and so on....banyaklah lagi problem my friend...

Hanin senang je cakap..."dear...he's Just Not That into You...lupakan dier...."

macam takde insuranskan mulut hanin? but..hanin terpaksa beritahu kawan hanin the truth....hanin tak nak dier macam stupid mengharap kat that bastard...i want her to live in reality....Hanin sayang my friend....oh!! lagi satu hanin cakap macam tu....Hanin pernah rasa apa yang dier rasa dulu..(uh!! not my hubby..he's the best.....jumpa-jumpa je terus ajak kawin :p)

come onlah..kalaulah dier betul-betul sayang kiter dia akan sentiasa keep in touch dengan kita....meeting ke? busy ke? takde alasan...men know how to use phone...kalau dier dah rindu kita..dier mesti message or call kejap tanya khabar...itu tandanya we're always on his mind...tak payah kita nak terkejar-kejar dier atau terhegeh-hegeh....if he wants to find you..he will...* betul tak B?*

yes...memang ler biler kiter call..dier cakap ngan kita..he might even talk for hours with us...tapi fikir...does he call you first?? or message you first? A man who is interested in you..will make an effort to call you..kalau tak call...a simple message pun jadi "how are you,sayang? i miss you?" eh!! bukan you yang bagi that message tau...the guy..

Ohh! hanin setuju ngan penulis buku "he's Just not that into you", Greg....kepada yang confuse dengan diri sendiri..that guy suka kita tak...bla...bla...ha!! baca buku nie...i love his books....banyak lah alasan dier yang logic yang that guy memang tak suka kita...biler baca tu memang sakit hati...tapi kita kena think positive...semua tu betul....

Apa alasan Greg biler that Guy not into us?? ni antara alasan-alasan dier...kalau nak tau lebih lanjut...belilah buku tu...hihhi!
  • He's just not into you if he's not calling you..
  • he's just not into you if he does not want to marry you...(kalau dier sayang y0u sangat-sangat..dier dah fikir future dah with you...
  • He's just not that into you if he's breaking up with you...(err...kalau ada jodoh...insyaAllah adalah...selalunya bila jumpa...kawin terus...takut pisang berbuah dua kalikan? tapi let him yang start dulu...not you...)
  • He's just not that into you if he's disappearing on you...(ha...handphone takde battery for few days....busy..ada meeting....dier hilang macam tu je...kiter yang kelam kabut cari dier...dier relax je...)

memang lama gak lah hanin bagi nasihat at my friend..."you're not alone,dear....you've got family and friends who are there for you...just try to forget him...insyaAllah ada hikmah disebaliknya...maybe you'll find a better guy than that bastard.."


i can hear her sighing on the phone..." i trust you hanin....betul cakap you...dulu teruk gak lepas hanin break up...but...hanin kuat...and yes...you've found a better guy than your ex....now dah jadi your hubby...and dah ada anak yang cute pun...."


hihi! i'm smiling...tu cerita lama...yups!! hanin bersyukur sangat-sangat...jodoh hanin dengan farshid :) alhamdulillah im happy with him....thanks to that book....bila hanin baca...it makes me stronger and realize farshid memang betul sayang hanin...he passed all the test :P dari dulu sampai sekarang...he still treats me the same...dier manjakan hanin sangat-sangat..and always there for us...even though dier kerja jauh...he will find his time to call me...and message me :) I just pray to Allah...semoga hubungan hanin and farshid berkekalan...

Oh! hanin pernah bagi farshid baca this book...right after hanin engaged to him...time tu dier bawa baca atas kapal....farshid called me...and agreed with the book...dier kata apa yang buku tu tulis semua betul :P hihi! tak taulah..maybe dier nak amik hati hanin...tapi i'm glad he's way different dari apa buku tu tulis :) of course different great...

hihi!! hanin still teringat..hanin kenal farshid memang sekejap....lepas seminggu kenal, dier mintak couple...siap mintak kebenaran ayah hanin....hahahah!! comel sangat..then a week after that....dier terus ajak hanin kawin....terkejut ayah hanin....tapi ayah setuju...ayah lega.....bila tengok hanin happy balik...maybe ayah tau he's the right guy for me....

thanks sayang......honey happy sangat-sangat dapat jumpa B.....now, kiter dah ada cute daughter....thanks sooooo much for this wonderful life....

to my dear friend..if you're reading this blog....I hope you can accept the fact..you're beautiful and smart....insyaAllah you'll find a right guy one day :) focus on your future...time nilah u nak manja puas-puas with your family and enjoy your time with your friends....be strong,k ;)

0h!! hanin dah dapat your message..hahahah!! funny you...siap gi MPH cari buku yang hanin cakap...siap beli 3 lagi buku dier :P take care,dear..will always pray for your happiness and good luck in your life...muahx!!

ok...kepada sesapa yang nak beli buku nie...nilah buku dier...memang best :) oh! memang cerita nie dah kuar wayang...but tak sebest buku dier ;)














semoga anda "kuat semangat" bila baca buku nie ;) have fun...



P/s: tiba-tiba ada mood nak tengok movie "he's not that into you" lagi with him tonight...


3 comments:

That's so Jaja said...

Buku tu mmg best. Straight to the point takde cover2. Mmg betul pon wakeup call utk gurls yang terlampau dilamun cinta sampai tak boleh bezakan baik buruk.

Azizah Abd Jamal said...

The book among the best book! I agree with the previous comment very direct with no hidden agenda*
As for yer fren hanin, she deserve far more better person..

To hanin, miss talking to u -_-"

Noor Aisha Amir said...

ishh.. byk kenangan lama ni hanin

how many hours of discussing & analyzing every single molecule of his action/reaction.. sampai tido sesame, mimpi ngigau pun sama.. ahaha

im so happy things work out the way it is, but honestly pls dont regret it because it has brought me closer to u and evolve u to be this strong amazing woman u are today. alhamdulillah!